Gratitude Journal #1

Recently I watched a TED talk about happiness and gratitude by the monk David Steindl-Rast. Over the years I have picked up from numerous places about the benefits of having gratitude, but the talk brought it home to me. I am terrible at being grateful, and that can’t be helpful in my quest to fill up my glass. So I have looked at ways of helping me to become more grateful, to gain more of those benefits.

What is gratitude?

To recap (I’m sure I’m not the only one who has a rough idea but could do with a refresh!); the ability to be thankful and appreciative of things and people around us. There is a notion of gratitude having an element of social exchange, it creates some obligations between parties, for example saying thank you after receiving help or assistance means we are more likely to receive it again in the future, although I intuitively think this is just too simplistic an approach. The polar opposite is taking things for granted.

Why is gratitude important?

There has been growing evidence of the benefits of gratitude over the past 15 years as the field of positive psychology developed. Evidence has shown both physical benefits as well as psychological advantages. These are some of the things that I found out about, having a little browse around the old interweb, as universally accepted:
• Increased happiness
• Improved life satisfaction
• Reduced anxiety and depression
• Increased compassion
• Lower blood pressure
• Improved immune system
Who wouldn’t want to have all those things for themselves…?

How can I develop my gratitude?

Like any other skill gratitude is something that needs to be practiced. Back when I was getting serious about honing my routines, I put down on my list for bedtime to express 3 gratitudes for that day. But I haven’t been very good at doing it at night-time because by that point in the day I feel tired and I find recall of the day’s events tricky.

So I have needed to find another way to be better able to express my gratefulness for my life, and the people and events that exist in it. I wanted to undertake a more instantaneous way of voicing when I felt grateful because I thought this might help with the memory issue but also to be more aware of these moments as they occur – mindfulness in its truest sense.

I decided foster my daily experiences of gratitude through recording them and journaling them through photographs and captions. This is by no means a unique idea, I don’t claim that for myself, although I came up with it as a solution for myself independently of anyone else using it as a tool, so I am quite sure it is the right approach for me.

To do this I have set up an Instagram account, the_filling_glass, for this purpose, linked to this blog. I aim to document at least once a day, but so far it has been more. Please feel free to follow me or join in with your own gratitude pictures on your feed, but be sure to comment on your photo what you are grateful for.

I will be posting weekly my most favourite gratitude of the week, although I know a lot of the time I will find it difficult to choose, including this week – which is why I am choosing two!

I am grateful for...my husband being home safely from his trip and the happiness of our children to see their Daddy. #gratitude
I am grateful for…my husband being home safely from his trip and the happiness of our children to see their Daddy. #gratitude
I am grateful for...being shown that I can be creative, for starting to believe in myself and meeting amazingly inspiring people. #gratitude #storysphere
I am grateful for…being shown that I can be creative, for starting to believe in myself and meeting amazingly inspiring people. #gratitude #storysphere
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  1. Oh how I LOVE this idea! As you’ve said gratitude is scientifically proven to improve our mood and shift our focus away from the negative – but as you’ve found consistency is key. Gratitude is one of my 8 daily happiness habits that I’ll be sharing soon over at TheJoyChaser (thanks to all the fabulous responses to my recent survey I’m so excited to start writing about this) and I do find that being grateful at the beginning of the day is more beneficial for me while celebrating at least one success works better before bedtime. Good luck with your ongoing journey Alice and thank you so much for linking up at #sharethejoy x

    1. Thank you so much for your enthusiasm for this post, as it’s something that I came up with myself (although based on sound science), its great to have validation that it is actually a good idea! I look forward to reading your daily happiness habits soon. I’m glad you have got some good inspiration, that’s always a nice feeling. xx

  2. Gratitude lists are such a wonderful idea and something that I really should try to get in the habit of too as it really does help you to focus on the positives. Love your two photos of things that you are grateful for this week – having hubby home is high on my list too this week as he has been away on a work trip. It’s so lovely when they’re back home again, isn’t it? 🙂

  3. Stephanie says:

    I strongly believe it’s a state of mind, and once you start it’s easier to continue. And no problem having two as far as I’m concerned 🙂

    1. Thank you so much for reading and commenting. It’s definitely feeling good to be conscious of looking for the positives, I’m looking forward to lots more of them. xx

  4. This is such a brilliant idea. I am definitely one for making sure that there are lots of positives and no negatives. It isn’t always easy though! That photo is fab – and I look forward to seeing lots more. Thank you for linking to #PoCoLo x

    1. Thank you for reading, and the IG follow. It definitely feels good to be looking for the positives, which I am just being much more conscious of now, I’m sure it is going to make a difference to my outlook. xx

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